10 Mistakes Older Guys Make Trying To Look
Young [0:00:00]
Mistake number one that older guys make trying to look young is just that, they’re trying
to look young instead of embracing their age. Here’s the deal is that you don’t want
to look young, what you want to look is healthy, you want to look strong, you want to look
successful. So, there is a 2018 study published in the
Journal of Science Advances, and they actually studied online dating ideal ages. For men,
what you do you think the ideal age was? 20? 30? 40? No. It was 50 years old.
So, my point is, it’s not about you looking young, it’s about you looking good for your
age, you looking the best that you can with what you got.
In today’s video, gents, ten mistakes older guys make trying to look young.
[Music] And, make sure to stick around ‘til the
end of this video because I’m going to talk about that study again where they talk about
peak attractiveness age for women. Guys, it was brutal.
So, the next mistake older guys make trying to look young is they can’t let go of their
baseball caps. Guys, look to upgrade your headwear. If you’re going to support your
favorite team, of course, wear your team colors, but guys, look for situations where you can
upgrade your headwear. If it’s hot outside, the sun is going to
be in your face, then look for a hat, maybe a Panama, something with a wide brim. If it’s
in the winter months, then all of a sudden bring in maybe an insulated flat cap that’s
going to have, you know, this one right here turns out and covers the ears. Look for something
that functions, look to upgrade your headwear game.
Now, I know a lot of you guys are wearing that baseball caps, you don’t want to deal
with your hair. That takes me to the next point which is to level up your hair game
by going to the best stylist in your area. Maybe even going to the same barber for years,
maybe you haven’t been to a barber for years. In any case, guys, take some pride in your
hair, have fun go get a new style. You’ve got longer hair, try a shorter hairstyle.
If you’re losing hair if you’ve got thinning hair here, consider shaving it off going for
a different more dominant look. You don’t want to go with the bald look? Then look at
your options. Maybe you want to find a treatment that’s going to help it grow back. Maybe
you want to look at a hair transplant. The point is take control of your hair.
So, the next mistake older guys make trying to look young, they try to keep up with those
twenty year olds. They’re going out drinking all night partying all night and guess what?
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So, the next mistake older guys make trying to look young is they wear their running shoes
everywhere. Guys, invest in some good casual footwear. So, you can go with a simple white
sneaker. Notice the difference here? This is a huge upgrade. Okay, you don’t want
to deal with this getting dirty? Then, go with a simple black maybe bring in something
a little bit more stylish. Notice how the silhouette all of a sudden
changed on this? We’ve got a perforated leather. In any case, tons of options out
there for casual shoes, just don’t be wearing those running shoes, guys, they’re for running.
And, if you’re going to be running, sure, wear them, but for other situations look to
upgrade your shoes. So, the next mistake older guys make, wearing
the wrong type of jeans. So, when you’re in your 20’s, you’re in great shape, you
can get away with a lot of things, you can wear things that honestly don’t look that
great, but because you’ve got a killer body, you’re going to be fine, but as you age,
your body oftentimes, well, it’s just not like it was in its 20’s, so you need to
make sure that you’re wearing jeans that work for your body type.
Now, for most older guys this is going to mean no skinny jeans and definitely no baggy
jeans. Now, when it comes to rhinestones on those back pockets, I’m going to say probably
avoid that. When it comes down to baggy jeans that are sagging down past your buttocks,
please do not do that. When it comes to distressed jeans, I think some guys can pull it off if
they know what they’re doing, but that’s more for the fashion forward.
[0:05:00] So, I’m going to have a little bit of fun
with this next mistake. When I was 19, I wore this graphic tee, it said, “Men make the
strangest request”. To this day a buddy of mine his wife still remembers me wearing
this and she did not have a favorable impression on me for a decade.
The point is if you’re an older guy trying to look young wearing these graphic tees with
funny sayings, the issue here is what is your real goal and message in life. Are you trying
to achieve greatness, are you trying to get that company off the ground? Are you trying
to go out there and be the best man you can be to be a great father to set an example?
Here is the issue, when you wear something like that, you are not sending the message
you want to send. And, guys, graphic tees in general have been overplayed, they don’t
work for most body types. You would look so much better with a nice casual button-down.
And, speaking of shirts, know when to tuck them in. When you’re young you can kind
of get away with it, but, again, when you get older there’s expectations that you
understand when are shirts should tucked in and when it should be worn untucked. Dress
shirts are always tucked in. When it comes down to other casual button-downs, I know
that a lot of times you’ve worn that untucked, but look to see how would it look if you tuck
in that casual button-down. Now, with polos those are oftentimes going
to have a straight bottom, but you want to make sure you buy a shirt that’s made to
be worn untucked that isn’t too long or too short. The easiest way to figure this
out, I’ve got you covered right here. I’ve got lengths of what should be tucked, what
should be untucked. Now, getting back to that first mistake, your
goal isn’t to look young, your goal is to look healthy, your goal is to look successful.
But, what does it mean to look successful? Now, when you go back and you look at the
research from that 2018 study on online dating, what you’ll notice is that men, we focused
in on one thing, age; women, they focused in on multiple variables.
So, men, we focus in on getting a partner that’s younger than us. The optimum age
in case you’re wondering, 18. Yes, I know brutal, but that’s what the research clearly
showed. Women on the other hand, they’re looking at a number of other cues. They’re
smarter, they realized, okay, if I want a mate that’s actually going to work for me
and what I’m looking for, I need to look at the whole picture.
So, looking at all of this, the biggest mistake that older guys make is they’re still thinking
like they did in their youth. They’re focusing in on one thing. Instead of saying you know
what? It’s a bigger puzzle, it’s multiple things and I should not only focus in on my
health, on my appearance, but also on the way I present myself and full picture.
So, what video to watch next? Well, guys, we didn’t talk about body language mistakes,
but I do in this video, so go check it out and make sure that you don’t make any of
these mistakes. [0:07:27] End of Audio

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Dennis Veasley

100 thoughts on “10 Mistakes Older Guys Make Trying To Look Young | Mature Man Fashion Faux Pas”

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  2. Never take fashion advice from someone who has no clue how to dress in the first place. And stop being so obsessed with looking successful, it all means jack shit when you take your last breath.

  3. I am 53…I have learned to do what makes me feel good (bottom line)….other people's opinions are just that (opinions)…this guy is saying embrace your age (guess what wrinkles come with with old age)…and who the f#ck says that you have to be "wrinkleless" to look good… one thing I personally don't like are people who get facelifts and look hella scary (that's what I call "not embracing who you are) and that's my opinion (damn, I'm judging)…eat right, exercise 3 to 4 days a week and dress in a manner that makes you feel your best…and f#ck the critics because they will always be there whether you are 1, 11. 21, 31, 41, 51, or 101…it's all about who you are and what makes YOU happy…P.S.!…I use to get up in the middle of the night when I was 31 or so and devour OREO cookies, if I did that now, I would literally have to see a physician….in other words, know your body's physical AND mental limits…and with so many young females 20 to 30 pounds overweight AND growing (which really is an epidemic) they should also know and understand their body's limits….I only stated that because "proper care of your body needs to take place at any age…then "rock" your skinny jeans if you desire to….

  4. If I’m honest it’s a very patronising video, I think the ‘tips’ you gave are a little insulting. Here’s to baseball caps!

  5. Fucking YES!! Thank you! Im so tired of seeing 40 year olds with flat billed hats and athletic clothes all the time.

  6. That thumbnail though! hahaha! Yes, I totally agree with you that dressing your age really makes a difference and a good impression.

  7. 18 brutal! Lol… (22-32 No exceptions) ohhh an Zero Kids!….(Lions dont Feed others Cubs) Respect Nature.. An Grown men ware grown men Shoes!..

  8. Thank god Im an introvert and never gave up to that kind of young lifestyle so I will never cling to it…

  9. Im 48 with a full head of long curly hair, my wife would divorce me and daughters would disown me if i cut it lol.

  10. This fool tried to get people to wear a hat with ear muffs attached then proceeded to bombard us with a damn skin care COMMERCIAL. GTFOH!!

  11. I'm 47 and wear bib overalls with a nice shirt and work boots everyday. Always have and always will. If I get laid I get laid. I don't really care either way probably because working has always been my priority in life. Being a hard worker is also why I get laid to begin with. If I could wear my bibs to church I probably would. When I dress myself it's all about functionality and comfort. If that makes me look older oh well.

  12. I am a recently single again guy nearing 50, and I suppose because of how I take of myself, I am often getting attention from woman that look barely over 18. Yeah, many of them are really gorgeous but in my mind, that is a definition of torture. I don't want someone that will act like a damn child. I need good looking woman who is mature, respectful, and really knows what they want from life and from a partner.

  13. This goes to show you know nothing about bald men and women, why should we want to try and restore our hair if it's gone, the vast majority of women aren't bothered about baldness. Look at the world's best PUA Neil Strauss he's bald….. As long as you look good and have plenty of confidence, yes confidence, the number 1 turn on for a woman….

  14. Good Lord, I opened this again by accident because I forgot to close the tab. Just stop. You are making the world so much worse with these videos.

  15. Genetics is number 1 in how a man ages. Number 2 is taking care of yourself. Eating healthy. Eat Blueberries, blackberries, strawberries, pro biotic yogurt, chicken and eggs for protein. Also , Alive for Men multivitamins along with taking a ginger root and turmeric supplement. Exercise as well. My 2 cents:)

  16. So many implanted ads; good haircut is cool, keeping yourself physically active and exercise regularly. The rest is bull.

  17. what a fucking dork. are you trying to look gay with that green jacket? "real men" 🤣🤣🤣🌈🌈🌈

  18. Ok being in the 40s or 50 and dressings like that .well next in line a walking stick. I plan on looking young

  19. Someone needs to tell women this, I see way way more women doing this than guys. I dress the way I dressed all my life, casual.

  20. This video is so spot-on! It is literally super ridiculous when I see middle-aged men on the streets in like high-top sneakers, skinny jeans (sagged buttock optional), or those horrible ultra thin material and totally unshaped t-shirts that look like they found them in their attic after 25 years.
    What they dont realize is that trying to look younger (I like to use the term "teenagerish" to describe this) is always bound to fail and will make you look older instead AND will you judged a lot. Well dressed (clean, well matched, not exaggeratedly fancy) men will not try to hide their age, but they will be estimated at at least 10 years less than their actual age by looking fit, awake, healthy, planted, grown up and positive. Just like this video says.

  21. you know what guys, im in the beginning of my 40s and i still go to rock concerts, i wear a lot of baseball caps, i dress myself in a very authentic way and mix up hoodies, barbour jackets and so on….

  22. You lost me with the fascial shit
    Just use coconut oil
    Shoes without laces shoes laziness or you can’t tie shoe laces

  23. I'm 58 & after watching your options, I just realized that I am dressing "my age"; and I just thought I was being cool!

  24. …look at me watching this guy giving bs advice!!! I am 47 almost 48 yo..and I don't identify with you cheesy advice on what to wear…first of all..you really need to take care of yourself..at your age you look crappy pal…sorry but it's the true…so thumbs down…

  25. I'm 37, hit the gym daily, wear a hoodie and a hat. I pull 20 – 24 yr old chicks with ease.

    Trick is, be in decent shape, and wear clean clothing.

  26. You are assuming that we all have a full head of hair as we grow older. I think those other hats you suggest make you look older. I'll wear my baseball cap. I don't want sunburn.

  27. Worry about your own damn fashion……………olive suede and blue with greased back hair? Have you EVER done a days hard work in your life? Do you have one scar? Some Idiot who Faps to Ryan Seacrest isn't telling me how to dress.

  28. This guy is wearing a pea soup color jacket, takes care of his face like a woman and has small delicate hands 😂😂😂 I can’t take him serious.

  29. japanese middle ages man wear funky outfit… they don’t try to look young, they just want to look cool yet stylish!👌🏼

  30. Infomercial salesman tries to hook you in by making it look like he's giving legit fashion advice and then tries to sell you shit…

  31. I have been watching this guy for years. He is dead on. You should see some of the other managers I work with. They will wear short sleeve shirts with hoods on them and cheap designs all over it. Big bulky swiss watches with cheap ETA movements and shamballa bracelets like they are trying to be one with the world while they are typing up a quality report to send to our manufacturer.Mind you these guys I am talking about are like in their 40's early 50's.

  32. Great vid bro!!! I've been struggling with my style since I turned 40…I feel young…but I'm not, lol. This was super informative. Appreciate the assist.

  33. Hey Gringo Antonio, why do you dressed like a Westerner and not like a traditional Mexican with sombrero like speedy gonzales ????

  34. Don't listen to that Crap guys! You're completely normal according to Mother Nature's order! As long as you're wearing (Male clothes) and not (Sissy's specials) regardless of how disable young ugly and old you're!!!

  35. Ooh Rah! A great selection of subject matter! So true! I subscribed! Feel free to subscribe back.

  36. Is it me or is jimin looking alot like taemin,the bad aide of his looks.Maybe he picked up a few habits(like smoking) which made his face swell and things like that but that does not describe the unique jawline,maybe plastic surgery.
    Watch the 'Bts sings make it right on late show with stephen' for what i mean

  37. When I wash my face I'm in the shower and rub soap on the wash cloth. I rub it over my face untill entire surface is covered. Rinse and dry. I've tried that other crap and it makes my skin break out.

  38. I've seen guys who look like they live in a pigpen with some attractive women. Fuck your style advice.

  39. “You probably wouldn’t worry about what people think of you if you could know how seldom they do.” Olin Miller.

  40. I am 53 years old and I still love wearing baseball caps. I think the idea is to stick to plain dark colours like black, navy, deep brown. Should still be ok. Wearing hats or flat caps is just too old fashion.

  41. Another useless stupid advice that means shit really….

    If you grow up in the 1990's ..and got used to certain style, from the 1990's …. how's that trying to look young….these assholes are just stupid….

    Like if you grow up eating fruit …you must quit eating fruit after 40 …😏🤔😕

    Get a life will ya….

  42. Bruh that green suede jacket is A1.
    Id rock that with my beige t-shirt/beige jeans and my beige clark wallabees

  43. I think the two worst are a bald man with long hair around the fringe in a ponytail or a man bun. He just looks silly, period. The other is a bald man with a comb over. It's over, give it up. Cut your hair short or shave it! You are not fooling anyone but yourself in both cases.

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